My nerves are shot from separation anxiety. You know how a baby's cries pull at your instincts to do something? Well, with separation anxiety, the baby cries to get you to pick them up. I cannot hold two babies all day and get anything done. Plus, I am mentally and physically worn out from doing such. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I cannot let them cry to try to get to sleep because it is against my nature and they will wake one another up. Besides, what if there is really something wrong with them? What are some ways I can work on getting them to soothe themselves to sleep without me having to let them cry for hours? I am willing to go through a process if I have to but I need to know what to do.